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己都没有信心，可想而知大家的信心会怎样？

这就是一种当下的自我洞察。你觉得自己是在做一个正面的激励，但实际上呢？很显然，自己内心没有信心的时候，很多话虽然说了，但也不一定能够达到鼓舞别人的效果。

只有洞察自己当下的行为和语言，才能立刻发现问题所在并做及时的调整，以达到更好的效果。

倾听内心的声音

首先，我想给大家介绍一篇英语文章，它是我读过的、对内心最优美的诠释。

Verymuch，eversinceyouwerebroughtintothisworld。Whenyoucouldn…topenyourmouthtillthefirsttwoyearsonplanetearth，innervoiceistheonethroughwhichyouinterpretedandunderstoodthings。

Innervoiceisthevoicemouthofthesubconsciousmind。Thesubconsciousmindisalwaysactingasasecondaryreflectorofthoughtsandideasinthebody。Itjustifiesandrationalizeswhatisrightandwhatiswrong。Whenwegoaganistwhattheinnervoicesays，wegetaguiltyconsciousandarebotheredbyitthroughoutourlives。

Attimeswhenwearefeelingloworthoseunforgettablemomentswhenweareletdown；weseemtoneedsomekindofemotionalormentalsupport。Weusuallyspeaktoourclosestpalorourdearestfamilymemberduringtimesofdistresstoeasetheburden。Atsuchtimeswegetovertheinitialdrizzleofemotionalanxietyandmentalrestlessness，becauseofthepeppingupbyourempathiclistener。Wesuddenlyfeelrejuvenatedbecauseourinnervoicealertsustogetonwiththingsandleavethethingsofpastonthememorybooksofourbrain。

Theinnervoiceisalwaysrightmostofthetimesbecauseitknowsusbetterthanothersandprobablyevenourselves。Itisthedaredevilchildoftheintuitionswhichwehavebeenhavingsincechildhood。It…sgoodtogobyintuitionsmostofthetimsbecauseitstheresponseprovidedduetothesynchronismbetweenourmentalandphysicalbeing。

第27节：倾听内心的声音（2）

Wheneveryouaretryingyourfirstcigarette；orwheneveryouareaskedtotakesidesinanargument，youarealwaysinasenseofdilemma。Duringthesetimesyourinnervoiceautomaticallygivesitsverdict；whichwhenoverwritten；mightleaveusunhappyinthefuture。It…suptoustoeitherignorethemoraleboosterinsideusorgoouttotheworldandsearchforspiritualguru…sandhappiness，whenalltheseth